Friday, September 29, 2006

You will go blind!!

I wonder if his palms are hairy as well :)

Just in case you didn't know, "Эротика" is Russian for Erotica.



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Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Sugasm #48

This Week’s Picks

The Luckiest Girl in the World (
“Would he have the energy, the stamina, to make me come as much as I need to come?”

I Want To Shave You (
“That luscious plum, that erotic ridge around it, the enticing veins tracing their way up that cock I am so engrossed in…”

The Rum Raisin Compromise (
“My husband did not understand why I couldn’t live the rest of my life without the taste of a woman passing my lips.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
How to Give Away Porn (

Editors’ Choice
Rope Bondage Images (

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Sexy Audio & Video
Hear My Name (
How to Give a Blowjob in a Car (
Sex Inspiration, Study & Dream - Video Blog Entry (
Slave Girl: Part One (

Sex News and Sexy Reviews
Craigslist User Publicizes Private Correspondence (
Do Video Games Effect Our Sex Lives? (Survey) (
The Five Best Tera Patrick Scenes of All Time (
Inflatable Vibrating Penis (
Tire Paddle HNT (

Adela & Susana (
Ass Masterpiece (
Consolation Eye Candy, or What a Wild, Wild Month! (
Featured DDGirls Covergirl Sunny Leone (
Put on a Shirt HNT (
Roxy in booty shorts (
Two Bad Girls in a Prison Bed (
WebMistress Feature Gallery: Scenic Silver Reef (

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Adult Webcam Humor (
Boobies (
Erotic Rather Than Fucking (
Phain’s Tasty Specs… (
Science of Sex - Sense of Smell (
Sex Goddess??? (
“Three sex acts enter, one sex act leaves.” (
The Vagina and the Douche (

Erotic Writing and Experiences
2. Greet (
Dreaming of a Dark Odyssey (
The Eternal Hotness of Hanna (
Get Caught Looking now! (
My Taxicab Confession (
Room 304, Part I (
Teresa (

BDSM and Fetish
Happy HNT-Cheerleader Paddling (
Lions, Tigers, and Spankings! Oh my! (
A Long Awaited Erotic Very Sexy Spanking Session… Finally (
Melinda Makes a Discovery… (
Pajama Party (
She was like a wild animal… (
Switching My Bottom On (

Monday, September 25, 2006

English speaking, lesbian, graduate managers have more orgasms

According to this academic report, a woman is more likely to have an orgasm during sex if she is a graduate who speaks English at home (especially if they are Australian) according to "Sexual Practices at Last Heterosexual Encounter and Occurrence of Orgasm in a National Survey", carried out by researchers from the UK's Sussex University and the universities of Sydney and Melbourne. It also helps if you speak English at home, have a "higher household income" and "a managerial/professional occupation".

Those women who'd "used a sex toy in the last year" and "had sex more than twice a week in the four weeks before being interviewed" were similarly "significantly more likely" to have cum. The likelihood of female orgasm was not, however, affected by:

"whether [women] had become sexually active before age 16, the length of time they had been sexually active, the number of sexual partners over the lifetime, whether they had masturbated in the last month, had deliberately visited an internet sex site in the last year, had watched an X-rated video or film in the last year, or their attitudes toward sex".
The principal reason for female frustration is, however, not due to socio-economic factors. Yup, you guessed it: lack of proper attention considerably reduced a woman's likelihood to orgasm. Specifically:

"orgasm was least likely (50 per cent) among the group whose only reported practice was vaginal intercourse. Rates were higher (around 70 per cent) among those who had intercourse plus manual stimulation, or intercourse plus cunnilingus".
Which explains why:
"women having sex with women were more likely to reach orgasm at their last encounter (76 per cent)"
I took some time to glance through the report and some of the stuff was quite interesting as well as having some significant items missing.

While there was plenty of mention of cunnilingus as an aid to orgasm, there was no mention of analingus. There was mention of "Did he stimulate your clitoris or vaginal area with his hand?" there was no question such as "Did he stimulate your anus with his hand?" I don't know about other girls but M is quite capable of having an orgasm from anal stimulation alone (although she does prefer for some fucking to be thrown into the mix ;)

Another interesting quote goes:

It was more common for men to report manual stimulation of their female partner and cunnilingus than for women to report receiving such stimulation
Does this mean the guy went down on the woman but she didn't notice??

There is a table that shows the 64 possible combination of sexual practices covered by the survey. I was a bit shocked to discover that my normal encounters with M falls into the far end of the curve. Our encounters normally cover "vaginal + anal + fellatio + cunnilingus + manual (man) + manual (woman)" plus a few more things thrown in for good measure.

Mind you, M & I have yet to be in the situation where she hasn't had an orgasm when we have made love. Indeed, we haven't had a situation where she hasn't failed to orgasm again and again.
I love multi-orgasmic woman.



Monday, September 18, 2006


Pixie Blue Nipple

I've always been a huge fan of small breasted women, especially those with big nipples. I love watching and feeling a nipple slowly growing erect as a women gets more and more turned on.

leto Nipple

Watching a nipple harden while you feel the other with fingers or tongue really turns me on. I love the feel of a woman's breast as I gently squeeze it, the nipple being rubbed between my fingers, the softness of the skin, the softness of the flesh.

Nadine Jansen

I don't like large breasts. A D-cup is probably about as big as I find arousing. Huge pendulous breasts do nothing for me.

Huge fake ones actually turn me right off, I really don't understand why a woman would want to mutilate her body in that way. OK, it may do wonders for her self-image to go from an A- or B-cup up to a C or D but why go so over the top. It just doesn't look right. I just don't see the point of breasts that are so big they are practically dragging on the ground. Surely they must just get in the way.

Obviously, this is a very personal preference. I was talking with a friend recently who was telling me that his 13 year-old son is currently totally obsessed with breasts, the bigger the better.

Katie Price/Jordan

He actually thinks that Jordon, a.k.a Katie Price, is attractive. He still has to learn the difference between quantity and quality. While she has quantity, she most certainly isn't quality.

Girl on bed

No, give me a nice pair of sub-D cup boobs and I'll be a happy bunny.



Wednesday, September 13, 2006

Sugasm #46

The best of the sex blogs this week by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts voted by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #47? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Body Image & Sex Work (
“Then, I thought about myself in that playspace, obsessing over how to present my body, while the client, evidently, was enthralled.”

The Fever is Real (
“This was Dior’s way to lay down the gauntlet for Matthew… ‘I’m ready. I’m hot. I’m panting with desire. I’m gorgeous and sexy - come fuck me.’”

Just What You’re Missing (
“That’s when I lean forward and kiss along your jawline… slow hungry pressings of soft lips and hot breath with just the barest hint of tongue.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Book Review: ‘Fresh: Girls of Seduction’ by Dave Naz (

Editors’ Choice
Having Myself All to Myself (

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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Second Week Without a Functional Computer Of My Own….. (
Where are the manners? (
Would you sleep with a virgin? (

Sex Work
Panty Tree (

Sex News and Sexy Reviews
Clone A Willy Moulding Vibrator Kit (
The Man With Two Penises (
Sex Toy Designer Spotlight: Lelo Interview (
The Three Best Girl-on-Girl Pornos of All Time (

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Back in His Arms (
Fare Amore (
Grrl’s Night Out (
Guest blogger: “Dessert” (
How we spent our Anniversary! (
Just for the taste of her…(part one) (
The long hard weekend f*ck (
More Hot Wife Memories (
Need (
Shower in the shower (

Blonde Bombshell Jurgita Valts (
Cowgirl HNT (
Gauge (
Half-Nekkid in the Bible Belt (
Happy naughty panties HNT! (
Sexy upskirt in kitchen (

BDSM and Fetish
Back School, Back To Books, Back to “SchoolGirls’” Dirty Looks (
Dishonourable discharge (
Fiction: Grocery Dom (
How to make her body betray her… (
On Shade45 With DJ Whoo Kid and Crew (
Playing hookie (
Sassy me (and domesticity) (
Spanking and Brass Bands (
Tales From Under The Desk, Part 11 (

Monday, September 11, 2006

A Girl's Best Friend

A Girl's Right Hand

Marilyn Monroe sung that Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend, but I think this picture illustrates what is really a Girl's Best Friend.



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Wednesday, September 06, 2006

Would you sleep with a virgin?

Strange title I know, but it's a subject that I've been thinking about a lot over the last few months.

Of course, someone has to sleep with a virgin otherwise we would all be one. I myself have done so on two occasions, once with my first proper girlfriend and once with my wife (obviously you can only sleep with a particular virgin once).

There is a particular type of person who takes their main sexual pleasure from 'deflowering' virgins but, personally, I regard this as a form of child abuse (no matter the age of the "victim") or rape. Their intention is not to form a relationship with the person; they just want to be their "first". Like rape, there can be no real joy associated with this act; it's purely a power play. But that's not the point of this post.

Both times that I've been the 'first' were quite disappointing. The very first time because we were both unaware of exactly what to expect and how best to enjoy the feelings and sensations our bodies were experiencing. It was very different from the, admittedly very pleasant, "heavy petting" we had been up to over the previous few months. I came very quickly, she didn't come at all. A latter, less hurried attempt later on that evening was much better. It was similar the second time I slept with a virgin, not very good at the start, even though I was a bit more experienced by then, and then getting better.

At that stage of my life the learning curve was good fun to go along but I'm not sure if it's what I would want to go again. As an almost middle aged man, what I want from a sexual encounter is fun, excitement and satisfaction. What I don't want is some shrinking violet who is unsure what to do. I want someone with experience who wants to get the same level of satisfaction from sex as I do. That's not to say that there
isn't a learning curve to go through with any new partner. Part of the excitement is discovering just how a new body reacts to new stimuli, how one girl reacts to a certain action is no guarantee that another will react in the same way.

However, there has got to be a certain base level that you can both work from. I don't want to have to start completely from scratch; I don't want to have to teach the basics to a girl. OK, they may have a theoretical idea of what is involved with making love, they may have plenty of solo experience (which is a big plus as they will be aware of how their body reacts) but there is no substitute for actual physical experience with a partner.

Mind you, I think it's important to note that just because someone has slept with a number of partners and regards themselves as "experienced", that's no guarantee that they will be any good. I've slept with a couple of girls who, although they had had quite a few previous partners, were very much in the "lie back and think of England" school of sexual excitement. They must have been treated very poorly by their exs as not even the most gently of sensual ministrations on my part would coax any kind of reaction. Even my wife used to enjoy sex and was often multi-orgasmic although she was never keen on anything she regarded as different.

Nope, give me a girl who really enjoys a good fuck and has knows how to give as well as receive; a girl who knows what she wants and loves they way she gets it; a girl who knows what you want and loves they way she gives it to you; a girl who likes to play and experiment, to try something new; a girl who isn't afraid to tell you her own limits and to find out, and respect, yours. If such a girl happens to have the body of a nubile young twenty-something, so much the better :)



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Saturday, September 02, 2006

Girl On A Train

Girl On A Train

This hasn't been a very good week for me, mainly because I've felt like shit :( What I thought was the flu turned out to be a kidney infection and, to top it all, I pulled my Achilles Tendon so I can't even walk properly.

Anyway, enough of my woes. This photo reminded me of a very pleasant experience I had many years ago while traveling on a train. I must write it up one day.

I hope you enjoy looking at her as much as I do. Makes me feel so much better.