Monday, December 11, 2006

What does a Scotsman wear under his kilt?

Of course, the answer to the question in the title is "Nothing. It's all in perfect working order".

While I don't claim to need a kilt quite that long (how could I when my equipment is available here for all to see and admire) I was tickled pink by this particular advert from Durex especially as I've had issues in the past with condoms being too tight.


Sunday, December 10, 2006

Pussy in the mirror

Pussy in a Mirror
I like this photo on a number of different levels.

I love the dark pigmentation around her lips. The shape and definition of her pussy is perfect, just a nice little slit. The positioning of her hand as if she is about to stroke herself. The way her skirt has risen up to give us a magnificent view and the suggestion of more to come.



Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Sugasm #56

I do like Sugasm for supplying a list of interesting, sexy blogs to peruse. I like it even better when I'm the Editors' choice :)

This week’s best of the sex blogs from the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants.

This Week’s Picks
Same Time Next Year (
“She nodded again, grabbing the doorframe as she pushed against the finger.”

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“I won’t pretend to be coy- because I know what I want.”

Sexual Things You Don’t Know About Me (
“My own erotic inner self has been piqued these last few days by a wonderful fantasy; maybe I can help pique yours by sharing.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Happy Thanksgiving (

Editors’ Choice
Fast and Furious (

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Sex News & Reviews
Lesbian Sadomasochistic Schoolgirls for PlayStation 2 (
Q: Can non nude porn be hot? (
Remote Control Wireless Vibrating Egg Review (

BDSM and Fetish
Happy HNT - Classroom paddling (
A Nawty Story: Kitten’s After School Special (
And One for Luck (
Working late, Part I (

Erotic Writing and Experiences
100 Things I Want To Do Before I Die (
clIMax for breakfast (
Home cooking, part 3 (
Hotel (
The Other Side of Jen (
Throbbing Cunt… OH I Need An Orgasm! (
What I did to Devil in a Blue Dress (

Sex History
Instruction And Advice For The Young Bride (

Sexy Humor
Chicken Man (
Those sexy italians (

NSFW Pics (& videos)
Alison Angel - Christmas (video) (
Black and White Erotic Photos by JS Hicks (
Half-Nekkid and Begging to Be Asked (
Happy Thanksgiving! (
Shay Laren Masturbates (video) (

Sex Work
PSO’s Thanksgiving (

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Craigslist Personals (II) (
Soft Porn is Greedy (

Sex & Politics
A National Addiction to Porn? (
Sex Positive Feminism: A Statement of Beliefs (

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Fast and Furious

I've been trying to come up with a way to describe a new sensation. Obviously, given the tenor of this blog it is a sensation of a sexual nature, but it's one that has been completely new to me and has taken me by surprise. It's a sensation that I haven't experience before and that took me by surprise when it happened.

To put things in context I, like many, if not most, men experience what is colloquially know as "morning wood". In other words, I wake often up with a raging hard on. Occasionally, if I'm in bed alone, I may choose to make use of the erection and exercise my right arm with a little bit of self abuse. A nice way to start the day you may say and you'd be right. Other times I may perform a similar act when I'm in the shower, much easier to clean up afterwards.

I also like to get my cock sucked. Cock sucking is an integral part of my love-making with M. She enjoys sucking on my cock when I'm licking her pussy or when I'm playing with her ass, I've described these situations in great detail in previous posts and, hopefully, you've enjoyed reading about those as much as I've enjoyed reminiscing about them. Indeed, I believed that there was very little better than a long, slow, sensuous blow job.

And finally, I get round to the point of this missive. Since my waxing, M and I haven't had a chance to be together. She hadn't had the opportunity to run her tongue over my perfectly smooth balls, she hadn't had the chance to slip her mouth over my smooth shaft or slip a finger round my smooth, but still puckered bum hole.

A couple of weeks ago, I needed to get a lift to work and M, who works nearby, volunteered. She arrived at my place just before 9, thankfully everyone else had left for school or other stuff. I was on the phone when she arrived so she parked and came in to the house. Just as the door closed, my call finished and I enveloped her in my arms to give her a long sensuous kiss, my hands sliding down to cup her lovely backside. We didn't have much time so I dragged her through to my study and started to try to undress her. Just my luck, it was the time of the month and so sex was out. This didn't stop her though and she squeezed my cock through my jeans before tearing them off to admire my tackle. OK, it had been a couple of weeks since the waxing but everything was still smooth.

I stood there as she dropped to her knees and started to furiously fellate me. Her mouth sucking on my head, her hands moving up and down the shaft lubricated with her saliva. I could only watch with awe as she stared up up me, a smile twisting the corners of her mouth as she sucked and nibbled away at my cock.

This wasn't a long, slow, sensuous blow job. This was a fast, furious, "you are going to cum now" blow job. This was for my pleasure. I was moving my hips backwards and forwards, fucking her face as her head bobbed up and down. After only a few minutes I felt the pressure growing in my balls as I got ready to blow.

And then I came, my hot cum spurting into her mouth, her sucking harder to get the last drop out of me, swallowing each and every drop apart from the few bits that dribbled out and slid down her chin. I grabbed her arms and pulled her up to me, planting my mouth firmly over hers to express my thanks with a long hard kiss, the taste of my cum heavy on her breath and skin.

My knees were almost buckling with pleasure. I felt as if every drop of energy had been sapped from me. My skin tingled from the tips of my toes to the top of my head. I felt as if I had no energy and masses of energy at the same time. It was one of the most fantastic, satisfying and erotic sexual experiences I have ever had. So totally different to anything I'd experienced before. Magical.

Even then, we had to hurry if we weren't to both be too late for work. I quickly pulled my clothes back on and M adjusted her make-up to cover up the effect of my cock on her face. We both grabbed a couple of breath mints and headed out.

For the rest of the day I continued to feel the exhilaration of that morning. Even now, writing this, I can recall the sensations of that quickie.

It was a shame that we didn't get a chance to actually make love on that occasion. M told me that she was just repaying me for the times over the last couple of months when she has cum when we have met in semi-public but I hadn't. I assured her that she had more than made up.

We are finally going to get to spend some "quality" time together later this week. I've just been re-waxed, the hotel is booked, the champagne is chilling and the lube is warming :) I can't wait.



Tuesday, November 21, 2006

In case of....

Caught these on a Russian funnies site the other day. I especially liked the wheelchairs and the water fountain :)



Friday, November 10, 2006

Man and Woman Share a Double Dildo

I was having a look around the Porkolt site the other night and came across this delightful little flick.

I've never posted an actual embedded thingy before so I hope this works.

[EDIT] Sorted the video.

I do hope you enjoy it as much as I did.



Thursday, November 09, 2006


There is no doubt that a nice tight bottom enclosed in a pair of jeans is a sight to stir the loins.

A girl walking in front of you with her bum softly undulating inside tight blue material while you're eyes devour her shapeliness is one of the delights of having two sexes.

When she bends over and the jeans are pulled even tighter and her underwear peaks out over the top I can feel my blood pressure beginning to rise.

I'm not a big fan of "whale tail", I just don't find it sexy, but if a girl has got the low riders just right and there is a lacy band from the top of her knickers just peaking over the top of her jeans, I just can't help staring. The promise of the delights hidden within rubbing against the smooth material, the imagination conjuring up images of the sites that await when the jeans are slowly removed.

There is something just so feminine about lace panties that a thong just can't match. Seeing the tight globes of a bum encased in white, black or red lace is so much more sexy than seeing them bare with a bit of string hiding between the cheeks. It's comparable to seeing a girl naked or seeing her partially clothed. In the right circumstances, and pose, the partially clothed figure is far, far sexier than the naked one. Many times I think that plain cotton panties are sexier than a thong for this very reason.

It's also nicer (and easier) to slip your hand down the back of a pair or "proper" pants to caress a bum then it is if with a thong. OK, the bum is exposed if a thong is worn but that's not the point. If you slip your hand into a girls pants you want to feel soft, pliant flesh on one side and soft sexy material on the other. You want to be able to run your finger down her bum crack, sliding down to reach her little starfish without the thong pinging back into place pushing your fingers away.

This is not to say that there is no place for a thong in my ideal girls wardrobe, far from it. In the right situation, a thong can be a delight to the horny man. Summer time sunbathing just wouldn't be the same without the sight of tanning bum cheeks.

Being presented with a thong ready to be pulled aside to allow an eager cock entry to an eager pussy justifies their existence any day.

But, what I really like is to look at a beautiful, tight, petite naked bum. Or even better, more than one.


Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Sugasm #52

After a hectic couple of days of traveling and business meetings it's nice to get home. Even better was to find myself one of this weeks top 3. Thanks folks.


This Week’s Picks
Waxed (
“After polishing off my testicles and perineum, Sam started on the area above and around my cock.”

Office Inspiration (
“You moans are quite loud now - presumably because everyone else has left the building and you don’t care.”

Home cooking, part 2 (
“A moan escaped her as the smooth richness hit her.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Porn Denial (

Editors’ Choice
The Taste Tester Sugasm Special! (
Long time Sugasm readers will remember Maeve’s blog The Taste Tester. Her entries were a regular part of our sexy posts. Now she is releasing her blog in novel form entitled The Taste Tester. To show our congratulations we’ve made her editors’ choice this week. She has graciously put a full chapter of her book in a special post for Sugasm readers. Thank you Maeve and congratulations again!

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Sexy Interview - Nikki Benz (
Venus Berlin Show Report - Porn (

NSFW Pics (& two videos)
The Good: Joon Mali and Lily Koh. The Bad: Sexy Suzie. The Ugly:Ex-Wife From Hell (
Half-Nekkid Thursday: Haunted WebMistress (
Hanna Hilton (
Happy HNT - Speed cropping video (
Kim Harlow Pin Up Artist (
A new kind of post (
Welcome to “Marital Bliss” by Marital Bliss (

Sex & Politics
“Black” Webcam Chathosts (
Getting Laid, Getting Tested, Getting AIDS (
Help Fight the War on Porn (
In Bush Country Books on Sex Don’t Sell (

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
5 things you don’t know about me (
Don’t fuck the pregnant lady! (
A New Monogamy (
Strike one (
Swinger vs. Poly: What IS Polyamory? Part 2 (
Tarts in Tartan, Part 1 (
You Are Not Alone If You Are Alone (

BDSM and Fetish
Disciplinary (
Distracting myself (
In which I dream of Dr Butler’s cunt (
Isabella’s Eyes - Part XI (
Make-Up Sex is the Best Sex (
Pink Champagne (
A Week in July (
Your suggestion is my command (

Erotic Writing and Experiences
24 (
Fusionnement (
I Crave Touch (
Just A Few (
Licking my pussy (
New Found Skin (
On The Sidewalk (
Lori - Part 1 (
Touch me (
The Wave (

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Wednesday, October 25, 2006

Before and After

It is Wednesday after all ;)

From Cock Blogging...

Here is a before and after shot of my waxing. The shot on the left shows quite a bit of hair, the one on the right shows none.



Monday, October 23, 2006


Well, I actually went ahead with it. I was incredibly nervous on Thursday knowing what was going to happen that lunchtime. I was very busy at work that morning which helped to take my mind off it but eventually the time came for me to go to the appointment. I did remember to take a couple of Ibuprofen about an hour before hand, having read that pre-waxing self-medication was a good idea. Being fully aware of the areas that would be on display, I also made sure I had really good wash before I headed off.

The only beautician that I'd been able to find in Edinburgh who advertised this kind of male waxing was Sin Waxing. Instead of a salon, the woman ran this operation from her home. Traffic on the way there was a nightmare and finding a parking space almost made me late for the appointment but I managed to get there pretty much on time.

When I arrived I was shown into her treatment room. Sam, the beautician, left the room as I took off my clothes having left me with a small flannel to cover myself with. When Sam came back in, she explained what she would be doing and I lay back as she prepared the hot wax.

I held the flannel to cover my cock and my left ball as she got to work on the hairs on my right ball. The feeling of the hot wax as she smoothed a small amount onto me was quite pleasant, until the time came for the first strip to be applied and ripped off.

I was expecting excruciating pain as the hairs were ripped from my skin and was steeling myself for the feeling of each individual hair crying out in pain as it departed this mortal coil. Thankfully, this didn't happen and, other than a slight tugging sensation the initial part of the waxing was reasonably pain free.

After polishing off my testicles and perineum, Sam started on the area above and around my cock. With me holding the offending article out of the way she proceeded to apply the hot wax to my skin. Expecting a similar experience to the other hair I was ever so slightly shocked when my worst nightmares happened and I felt as if my skin was being torn off with red-hot pincers!!! Sam said that the hair here was particularly thick as I'd been shaving for so long and that was why it was so painful. Next time it wouldn't be as bad. The next few minutes were a bit of a blur but soon the area was nice and hair free.

Next it was time to clear up the hair on the lower part of my cock. At this point the flannel was only being used to cover the very tip of my cock, I couldn't quite see the point but that's how it was. Soon my whole front was hair free and Sam rubbed some anti-septic Germaline cream over me.

Now it was time for the bit that I was dreading the most, the "crack". I was half expecting to be asked to go up on all fours with my arse sticking in the air but thankfully that's not how Sam wanted me. She had me lie on my side with my upper leg forward. I then had to reach behind and pull my butt cheek up to allow her access. Again, the actual waxing wasn't too unpleasant and I rather enjoyed the feeling of the wax. After flipping over to get the other side stripped, we were almost done.

Sam finished off by giving my chest a quick wax. Unfortunately, we had run out of time, so I couldn't get my legs done. I'll save that for the next time.

So, what do I now feel like? I can only say that I'm wonderfully smooth, more so than I was ever able to achieve by shaving alone. Even after 4 days, no stubble has yet appeared. My balls, especially, feel like silk they are so smooth and soft. What a wonderful feeling. I really wish that I'd done this ages ago and saved myself the pain of shaving cuts and nicks.

My only regret is that M is away on vacation just now and hasn't had a chance to give her opinion of the venture. I can't wait for her to run her tongue over my hairless balls, taking my hairless cock into her mouth as she slides a finger into my naked bum. Those pleasures will have to wait for a little while yet, hopefully before things start to grow back.



Tuesday, October 17, 2006


I've just upgraded my blog to the latest Blogger system. Let me know if it's a mega fuck up!



Monday, October 16, 2006

Braaazil, ta de dum te ta de dum

Ary Barroso's classic tune is running through my head just now. The reason? I've finally plucked (if you'll excuse the pun) up the courage to have a bit of waxing done. More than a bit really, I've booked myself in for the full male Brazilian. This thursday, I'm breaking my waxing cherry!!

As I've mentioned on a couple of occasions, I like to keep the old todger spick and span, ensuring that M doesn't come away with a pube between her teeth after her delightful mouth has been having it's wicked way with me. It's been a slightly uncomfortable few weeks as I've let the hair grow back to the required length.

I'll admit to being a bit terrified at the prospect of having the hairs ripped from my tender regions but a man's gotta do etc.

Single Gal said in a comment to me that "waxing is awesome". Well, we will see.



Saturday, October 07, 2006

What are the scientific reasons for having sex?

The reasons for engaging in sex are numerous. Among these are:

  • Sex helps boost the immune system. According to Dr Carl Charnetski of the Department of Psychology at Wilkes University in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania, people who reported one or two sexual "episodes" per week enjoyed higher levels of Immunoglobin A. This is an antibody that helps fight disease.
  • Sex helps boost longevity. In one study cited by Dr Charnetski, men who had more orgasms over a 10 year period boosted their longevity compared with those who had fewer.
  • Sex helps ward off cancer. In another study cited by Dr Charnetski, men who had more ejaculations over a 35 year period had 33 per cent less prostate cancer compared to those with fewer ejaculations.
  • Sex results in a more youthful appearance. According to a study by Dr David Weeks, a clinical neuropsychologist at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital in Scotland and co-author of Superyoung (1999), men and women who reported having sex an average of four times per week looked approximately 10 years younger than they really were.
  • Sex helps reduce stress. Numerous studies show that it does this through lowering anxiety levels, boosting relaxation, and aiding sleeping.
  • Sex helps fight depression. A study by Dr Gordon Gallup of the Department of Psychology at the State University of New York at Albany found that women who regularly engage in heterosexual sex in which they come in contact with semen were significantly less depressed than those women that did not. he causal relationship is unclear. Dr Gallup speculates that "possibly because when absorbed through the vagina, semen may have an effect on mood in women". However, Dr Gallup is quick to point out: "Regardless of the findings, this study does not advocate that people abstain from using condoms. Protecting oneself from an unwanted pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease is far more important."
  • Sex helps coping with middle age. This is the inference drawn from research by Dr GA Bachmann at the Robert Wood Johnson Medical School in New Brunswick, New Jersey and published first in 1995 in the International Journal of Fertility and Menopausal Studies and continuing in The Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2006.
  • Sex is good exercise. Exercise helps circulation, lowers cholesterol, and releases helpful endorphins.
  • Sex helps in losing weight. Well, at least a little. One burns approximately four to five calories per minute or perhaps 300 calories per hour during sex (depending upon how, shall we say, "vigorous" the sex is). About 7,000 to 8,000 excess calories must be burned to lose one kilogram of fat (3,500 to lose one pound). You do the calculations.
The reasons for not engaging in sex include transmission of diseases, heart attack due to exertion, and many others that I can't quite think of of at the moment.



Thursday, October 05, 2006

HNT - M's Nipple

M's Nipple

As I've said already, M & I are going through a "dry" period just now due a lack of location for making the beast with two backs.

We are still chatting every day and meet up for a coffee a couple of times a week. We are fortunate in that the coffee shop we choose is not too busy and we are normally able to sit in a reasonably secluded spot, not secluded enough that we can actually do anything but secluded enough.

As we sit across the small table from each other, we are able to touch and kiss. As M tends to sit with her back to the room my hands stray to her lovely boobies, fondling them though her clothes. If she is wearing a loose top, my hand will often slip inside it and her bra to caress her nipples.

The other day I fired up the camera on my phone and managed to take this rather candid shot of her nipple. Yummy.



Monday, October 02, 2006

Fucking US Government Kill Joy Bastards

OK, so not related to erotica but it does affect me so it's relevant.

Because some legislators in the US government have decided that people in the US are too immature to gamble online they have removed the ability for US citizens to bet.

The net affect of this to me personally is that today I've had the equivalent of over $500,000 wiped off my net worth. Not $500 or $5000 but FIVE HUNDRED THOUSAND FUCKING dollars.

It really makes me sick that some neo-Conservative, Right Wing arseholes who probably haven't had a hard on since the last time someone got executed, think they know best about how people can spend their money. Why the hell can't get their kicks from teenage boys like the rest do.

Over here (and in most of the world), betting on sports or poker is totally legal. Visa and MasterCard don't give a fuck, they make millions from gaming as do the banks. But not in the US. Anyway, what the fuck has online gambling have to do with the security of US ports. I'll tell you, NOTHING!!

Next Door Nikki - Strip Poker


(a much poorer) EE

Friday, September 29, 2006

You will go blind!!

I wonder if his palms are hairy as well :)

Just in case you didn't know, "Эротика" is Russian for Erotica.



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Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Sugasm #48

This Week’s Picks

The Luckiest Girl in the World (
“Would he have the energy, the stamina, to make me come as much as I need to come?”

I Want To Shave You (
“That luscious plum, that erotic ridge around it, the enticing veins tracing their way up that cock I am so engrossed in…”

The Rum Raisin Compromise (
“My husband did not understand why I couldn’t live the rest of my life without the taste of a woman passing my lips.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
How to Give Away Porn (

Editors’ Choice
Rope Bondage Images (

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Sexy Audio & Video
Hear My Name (
How to Give a Blowjob in a Car (
Sex Inspiration, Study & Dream - Video Blog Entry (
Slave Girl: Part One (

Sex News and Sexy Reviews
Craigslist User Publicizes Private Correspondence (
Do Video Games Effect Our Sex Lives? (Survey) (
The Five Best Tera Patrick Scenes of All Time (
Inflatable Vibrating Penis (
Tire Paddle HNT (

Adela & Susana (
Ass Masterpiece (
Consolation Eye Candy, or What a Wild, Wild Month! (
Featured DDGirls Covergirl Sunny Leone (
Put on a Shirt HNT (
Roxy in booty shorts (
Two Bad Girls in a Prison Bed (
WebMistress Feature Gallery: Scenic Silver Reef (

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Adult Webcam Humor (
Boobies (
Erotic Rather Than Fucking (
Phain’s Tasty Specs… (
Science of Sex - Sense of Smell (
Sex Goddess??? (
“Three sex acts enter, one sex act leaves.” (
The Vagina and the Douche (

Erotic Writing and Experiences
2. Greet (
Dreaming of a Dark Odyssey (
The Eternal Hotness of Hanna (
Get Caught Looking now! (
My Taxicab Confession (
Room 304, Part I (
Teresa (

BDSM and Fetish
Happy HNT-Cheerleader Paddling (
Lions, Tigers, and Spankings! Oh my! (
A Long Awaited Erotic Very Sexy Spanking Session… Finally (
Melinda Makes a Discovery… (
Pajama Party (
She was like a wild animal… (
Switching My Bottom On (

Monday, September 25, 2006

English speaking, lesbian, graduate managers have more orgasms

According to this academic report, a woman is more likely to have an orgasm during sex if she is a graduate who speaks English at home (especially if they are Australian) according to "Sexual Practices at Last Heterosexual Encounter and Occurrence of Orgasm in a National Survey", carried out by researchers from the UK's Sussex University and the universities of Sydney and Melbourne. It also helps if you speak English at home, have a "higher household income" and "a managerial/professional occupation".

Those women who'd "used a sex toy in the last year" and "had sex more than twice a week in the four weeks before being interviewed" were similarly "significantly more likely" to have cum. The likelihood of female orgasm was not, however, affected by:

"whether [women] had become sexually active before age 16, the length of time they had been sexually active, the number of sexual partners over the lifetime, whether they had masturbated in the last month, had deliberately visited an internet sex site in the last year, had watched an X-rated video or film in the last year, or their attitudes toward sex".
The principal reason for female frustration is, however, not due to socio-economic factors. Yup, you guessed it: lack of proper attention considerably reduced a woman's likelihood to orgasm. Specifically:

"orgasm was least likely (50 per cent) among the group whose only reported practice was vaginal intercourse. Rates were higher (around 70 per cent) among those who had intercourse plus manual stimulation, or intercourse plus cunnilingus".
Which explains why:
"women having sex with women were more likely to reach orgasm at their last encounter (76 per cent)"
I took some time to glance through the report and some of the stuff was quite interesting as well as having some significant items missing.

While there was plenty of mention of cunnilingus as an aid to orgasm, there was no mention of analingus. There was mention of "Did he stimulate your clitoris or vaginal area with his hand?" there was no question such as "Did he stimulate your anus with his hand?" I don't know about other girls but M is quite capable of having an orgasm from anal stimulation alone (although she does prefer for some fucking to be thrown into the mix ;)

Another interesting quote goes:

It was more common for men to report manual stimulation of their female partner and cunnilingus than for women to report receiving such stimulation
Does this mean the guy went down on the woman but she didn't notice??

There is a table that shows the 64 possible combination of sexual practices covered by the survey. I was a bit shocked to discover that my normal encounters with M falls into the far end of the curve. Our encounters normally cover "vaginal + anal + fellatio + cunnilingus + manual (man) + manual (woman)" plus a few more things thrown in for good measure.

Mind you, M & I have yet to be in the situation where she hasn't had an orgasm when we have made love. Indeed, we haven't had a situation where she hasn't failed to orgasm again and again.
I love multi-orgasmic woman.



Monday, September 18, 2006


Pixie Blue Nipple

I've always been a huge fan of small breasted women, especially those with big nipples. I love watching and feeling a nipple slowly growing erect as a women gets more and more turned on.

leto Nipple

Watching a nipple harden while you feel the other with fingers or tongue really turns me on. I love the feel of a woman's breast as I gently squeeze it, the nipple being rubbed between my fingers, the softness of the skin, the softness of the flesh.

Nadine Jansen

I don't like large breasts. A D-cup is probably about as big as I find arousing. Huge pendulous breasts do nothing for me.

Huge fake ones actually turn me right off, I really don't understand why a woman would want to mutilate her body in that way. OK, it may do wonders for her self-image to go from an A- or B-cup up to a C or D but why go so over the top. It just doesn't look right. I just don't see the point of breasts that are so big they are practically dragging on the ground. Surely they must just get in the way.

Obviously, this is a very personal preference. I was talking with a friend recently who was telling me that his 13 year-old son is currently totally obsessed with breasts, the bigger the better.

Katie Price/Jordan

He actually thinks that Jordon, a.k.a Katie Price, is attractive. He still has to learn the difference between quantity and quality. While she has quantity, she most certainly isn't quality.

Girl on bed

No, give me a nice pair of sub-D cup boobs and I'll be a happy bunny.



Wednesday, September 13, 2006

Sugasm #46

The best of the sex blogs this week by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts voted by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #47? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Body Image & Sex Work (
“Then, I thought about myself in that playspace, obsessing over how to present my body, while the client, evidently, was enthralled.”

The Fever is Real (
“This was Dior’s way to lay down the gauntlet for Matthew… ‘I’m ready. I’m hot. I’m panting with desire. I’m gorgeous and sexy - come fuck me.’”

Just What You’re Missing (
“That’s when I lean forward and kiss along your jawline… slow hungry pressings of soft lips and hot breath with just the barest hint of tongue.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Book Review: ‘Fresh: Girls of Seduction’ by Dave Naz (

Editors’ Choice
Having Myself All to Myself (

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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Second Week Without a Functional Computer Of My Own….. (
Where are the manners? (
Would you sleep with a virgin? (

Sex Work
Panty Tree (

Sex News and Sexy Reviews
Clone A Willy Moulding Vibrator Kit (
The Man With Two Penises (
Sex Toy Designer Spotlight: Lelo Interview (
The Three Best Girl-on-Girl Pornos of All Time (

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Back in His Arms (
Fare Amore (
Grrl’s Night Out (
Guest blogger: “Dessert” (
How we spent our Anniversary! (
Just for the taste of her…(part one) (
The long hard weekend f*ck (
More Hot Wife Memories (
Need (
Shower in the shower (

Blonde Bombshell Jurgita Valts (
Cowgirl HNT (
Gauge (
Half-Nekkid in the Bible Belt (
Happy naughty panties HNT! (
Sexy upskirt in kitchen (

BDSM and Fetish
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Monday, September 11, 2006

A Girl's Best Friend

A Girl's Right Hand

Marilyn Monroe sung that Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend, but I think this picture illustrates what is really a Girl's Best Friend.



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Wednesday, September 06, 2006

Would you sleep with a virgin?

Strange title I know, but it's a subject that I've been thinking about a lot over the last few months.

Of course, someone has to sleep with a virgin otherwise we would all be one. I myself have done so on two occasions, once with my first proper girlfriend and once with my wife (obviously you can only sleep with a particular virgin once).

There is a particular type of person who takes their main sexual pleasure from 'deflowering' virgins but, personally, I regard this as a form of child abuse (no matter the age of the "victim") or rape. Their intention is not to form a relationship with the person; they just want to be their "first". Like rape, there can be no real joy associated with this act; it's purely a power play. But that's not the point of this post.

Both times that I've been the 'first' were quite disappointing. The very first time because we were both unaware of exactly what to expect and how best to enjoy the feelings and sensations our bodies were experiencing. It was very different from the, admittedly very pleasant, "heavy petting" we had been up to over the previous few months. I came very quickly, she didn't come at all. A latter, less hurried attempt later on that evening was much better. It was similar the second time I slept with a virgin, not very good at the start, even though I was a bit more experienced by then, and then getting better.

At that stage of my life the learning curve was good fun to go along but I'm not sure if it's what I would want to go again. As an almost middle aged man, what I want from a sexual encounter is fun, excitement and satisfaction. What I don't want is some shrinking violet who is unsure what to do. I want someone with experience who wants to get the same level of satisfaction from sex as I do. That's not to say that there
isn't a learning curve to go through with any new partner. Part of the excitement is discovering just how a new body reacts to new stimuli, how one girl reacts to a certain action is no guarantee that another will react in the same way.

However, there has got to be a certain base level that you can both work from. I don't want to have to start completely from scratch; I don't want to have to teach the basics to a girl. OK, they may have a theoretical idea of what is involved with making love, they may have plenty of solo experience (which is a big plus as they will be aware of how their body reacts) but there is no substitute for actual physical experience with a partner.

Mind you, I think it's important to note that just because someone has slept with a number of partners and regards themselves as "experienced", that's no guarantee that they will be any good. I've slept with a couple of girls who, although they had had quite a few previous partners, were very much in the "lie back and think of England" school of sexual excitement. They must have been treated very poorly by their exs as not even the most gently of sensual ministrations on my part would coax any kind of reaction. Even my wife used to enjoy sex and was often multi-orgasmic although she was never keen on anything she regarded as different.

Nope, give me a girl who really enjoys a good fuck and has knows how to give as well as receive; a girl who knows what she wants and loves they way she gets it; a girl who knows what you want and loves they way she gives it to you; a girl who likes to play and experiment, to try something new; a girl who isn't afraid to tell you her own limits and to find out, and respect, yours. If such a girl happens to have the body of a nubile young twenty-something, so much the better :)



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Saturday, September 02, 2006

Girl On A Train

Girl On A Train

This hasn't been a very good week for me, mainly because I've felt like shit :( What I thought was the flu turned out to be a kidney infection and, to top it all, I pulled my Achilles Tendon so I can't even walk properly.

Anyway, enough of my woes. This photo reminded me of a very pleasant experience I had many years ago while traveling on a train. I must write it up one day.

I hope you enjoy looking at her as much as I do. Makes me feel so much better.



Tuesday, August 29, 2006

Sugasm #44

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